Trying something new! Let me know what you think.
- Oct 7, 2025
- 2 min read
Dear Friends,
Happy October! September flew by at a record pace, and I’m somehow already feeling the holiday hectic.
In an effort to “cope ahead,” I’ve blocked out (at least) two days a month for the rest of the year when I will have no meetings, appointments, or sessions scheduled. This way, I have some buffer days built in, and I can use those days as catch-up days or anything last-minute that I need to schedule. These buffer days are key in maintaining my well-being and enabling me to show up the way I want to those in my life during the busiest time of year.
It’s a useful strategy that I encourage you to implement – go ahead and start blocking days now. You (and your family and colleagues) will be glad you did!
I’m starting something different this week by combining my two newsletters (Thrive with a Guide Parent Coaching and Block Party USA). Not only is this an effort to streamline my work, but I know that there is so much crossover and value for all. It’s about taking actionable steps to achieve a life worth living – full of meaningful connection, support, well-being, and play. I encourage you to “take what you want and leave the rest.” And I welcome your feedback.
Upcoming Events
A third of Americans don’t know their neighbors, and 45% have no interaction with their neighbors. But that doesn’t mean people are opposed to the idea.
To begin bridging that gap, start simple: Organize a block party.
Gathering in the same place to enjoy some food and simple games is the foundation for connection. It gives people permission to reach out to their neighbors and start building relationships rooted in their shared place.
The effort is worth it. As Elias said, “You’re creating community just by having a block party. Is it instant? No. But the joy is instant.”
Join me for an interactive lunchtime webinar to gain insight into why school/homework avoidance happens, what it looks like, and how you can help support your child through it. During this session, Vanessa will cover topics including:
Identification: Understanding when the issue goes beyond ordinary resistance
The Parents’ Role: How you can help and empower your child
Navigating School Communication: How to collaborate effectively with your child’s school
Seeking Additional Support: When and how to find the most effective resources
When I was in Memphis last week to record “An Army of Normal Folks,” I realized that in many parts of the country it’s still plenty warm (and no longer too hot!) to have a block party! And if you are heading into chillier weeks, now’s the time for fire pits and s'mores parties or donuts and coffee in your garage! Whatever you do, you and your neighbors will be grateful you did it.
This is your official invite for Block Party USA's October Zooms/Office Hours:
Wednesday, October 8, at 3:00pm-3:30pm ET.
and/or Wednesday, October 22, at 12:00pm-12:30pm ET.
Zoom Meeting ID: 820 0975 1912
Come learn more and ask questions! No need to sign up, just show up!
